Monday, March 7, 2011


Leaving New York was the hardest decision I've ever made. It was made with the belief in my French husband that moving to France was going to be a positive change for our family, not that I necessarily found anything wrong with living in New York to begin with. It's not a question of the U.S. versus France. It's a question of New York versus anything else.

I have lived and breathed New York all of my life. All that I know, and all that I am is in that great great job, my solid friends, and my dysfunctional, insufferable at times, & irreplaceable family, are all there. Even my daughter was born in my hometown. I identify with all that this world famous location has to offer. Although, I love to travel and experience new things, I have never wanted to call anywhere else home. Well, all except for London which I can imagine could rise to the challenge,but that would only be temporary.

Nevertheless, my heart made the irrevocable decision of falling for someone who was not a New Yorker, nor American, not even Canadian but for an intriguing, gentle & sweethearted Frenchman. He, too, became an expat for me, eight years ago. To his credit, my husband tends to leap without looking. I am his polar opposite. Deep down, I knew that somewhere down the road I would face the foot of the bridge. After many years of debating, arguing, and many compromises, I crossed it. I didn't walk but I ran. If I'd hesitated one second, took one moment to reflect and look back, would I have done it? I don't know, but I do know it was the only way to do it. The pull of my husband, the pull of my daughter, and the pull of us as a family, I knew I owed it the chance. So here I am in a new apartment, a new street with new neighbors, a new town, and another great world metropolis. So Paris, show me what you got because this New Yorker is one hard sell.


  1. Love the new blog!! We're so excited for your new opportunity and this new chapter in your life and at the same time, we miss you just as much! I've added you to my blog roll thing, so anytime you update I'll be excited to read. I hope you 3 are adjusting. Chat with you soon!

  2. Blog first, book 2nd.
    I'm in.

  3. Hi Caroline!
    You took a real important and difficult decision... for that I am very admirative!
    I have always desired living in a foreign country for a couple of years... I ahev never thought leaving definitively my country, even less european continent...
    I am really impressed and I am sure everything will take place rapidly...
    You, Jasmine and Jerome will be happy there!
    NYC is so close to Paris!!! You can even go there for a weekend (remember?)...
    So whatever I could do for you, tell me...
    I look forward to seeing you AND to reading your blog!!!

  4. Thank you Ladies for your support! I don't know what I'd do without my amazing friends. Miss you!